Well, it's official! November 18 is National Dating A Scorpio Support Day. Even though we are magically drawn to the charisma and sensitivity of the mystical and captivating water sign, it can be difficult to navigate the waters at times. So, these are some pointers to help guide you to understanding Scorpios better. Now, you can slay at dating a Scorpio! You won't slip and slide when dating them, but will be able to enjoy the all-consuming, intoxicating, and wild ride.

Every zodiac sign has its positives and negative qualities, but Scorpios get a kick out of people thinking they're scary. On the outside, Scorpios appear tough, but once you get to know them, the water sign is soft and tender.

Their bad reputation comes from mythology. Their two planetary rulers are Mars, who is the god of war, and Pluto, who is the god of the underworld. People fear Scorpios because they have edgier sentiments than the other signs. Plus, they're super intuitive, so you can't play them. And when a Scorpio is angry or upset, they'll certainly plot their vengeance. Mostly, they'll just zing whoever annoyed them, then move on like nothing ever happened.

Once you break through their hard shell, you'll realize that they are fantastic. Trust me, I know this all too well. I've dated and befriended many, and I come from a long line of Scorpios in my family. Plus, I'm a professional astrologer. Therefore, I'm an expert.

FYI: Scorpio season lasts from October 22 to November 22.

So, how do you survive dating a Scorpio? Like the mysterious and confounding fixed water sign, the answer isn't simple.

Quit The Drama

The water sign doesn't have patience for drama (unless it's their own), so avoid being extra or messy in their presence. Their answer and response to the theatrics brought into their lives is to leave those messages on read and to not deal. Scorpios aren't afraid to block people that rock their sense of stability.

Let Them Take The Lead...Or Make Them Think They Are

Scorpios can be controlling and don't like surprises. It's advisable to let them take the lead in making and organizing plans to neutralize that energy. Of course, you can make suggestions and give advice (only when they ask for it). Allow them to take credit for the ideas -- even though they are yours.